• Getting Back Up After Three Quick Deaths in the Family – It takes time!

    Getting Back Up After Three Quick Deaths in the Family – It takes time!

    The death of a loved one is always difficult, whether it’s a sudden death or even if it’s after a prolonged illness. The price we pay for loving is grief and mourning after the loved one goes home to God. Within the span of 21 months, my mom, my dad, and my brother Tom entered eternal life. We were not expecting any of them to die, so their deaths left us stunned and filled with the normal set of questions that every family faces when several unexpected deaths occur in rapid succession. Mom (Vera) died on April 23, 1978, at…

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  • Going away to Albany – Time to Grow Up!

    Going away to Albany – Time to Grow Up!

    Seminary of Our Lady of Angels, Albany, NY – an interdiocesan major seminary conducted by the Vincentian Fathers, established at Niagara Falls in 1856 and relocated in 1961 and closed in 1972  After finishing six years as a student of Cathedral Prep Seminary in Brooklyn, NY (traveling by train from Astoria, NY), I was awaiting the news in the summer of 1965 about where I would go for the Major Seminary. I thought, for sure, it would be the Immaculate Conception Seminary in Huntington, NY. I forgot that the Diocese of Brooklyn was sending candidates, at that time, to other…

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  • Sisters of Saint Joseph – A Legacy of Education!

    Sisters of Saint Joseph – A Legacy of Education!

     From Left to Right: Sister Anna Desiderio (RIP), Bishop Ray Chappetto, Sister Letitia Lake, Sister Francis Claire Gowen (RIP) on June 30, 2012                 Growing up in Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish (Astoria), we were blessed to have a parochial school that had two buildings: grades 1-4 in the “old school,” built in 1891, and grades 5-8 in the “new school,” built in 1954. We had a total of 26 Sisters of Saint Joseph of Brentwood when the school was at its peak in the 1950s. The old convent on Astoria Blvd was really an old convent! The new…

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  • Mom & Dad – My first teachers and my best teachers!

    Mom & Dad – My first teachers and my best teachers!

    Ordination Day, Saint James Pro Cathedral, May 29, 1971 The expression goes, “Memories are stories waiting to be told.” Allow me to share with you my extremely fond memories of Vera and Louis Chappetto, my dear parents. Mom was born in Musellaro (Pescara), Italy, in 1909 and came to the United States in 1912, settling in Waterbury, Connecticut, before moving to Astoria, New York. She never returned to Italy (mainly because she didn’t want to fly), but she kept up an active correspondence with her cousins there. Dad was born in Astoria, New York, and lived there his entire life.…

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